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The LAOPACT Theory For Sales
Why Most Sales Conversations Fail
Let’s be honest — most sales conversations die not because of poor products or pricing, but because of poor connection.
We’ve all seen it: the salesperson jumps straight into pitching features while the customer is still mentally deciding whether to trust them.
Sales isn’t about talking. It’s about tuning in. It’s about building a moment of genuine connection where the customer feels heard, valued, and understood.
That’s where the LAOPACT Theory comes in — a simple, seven-step communication model that helps you navigate any client conversation with confidence and empathy.
Each letter in LAOPACT represents a step that transforms your approach from transactional to transformational:
L – Listen, A – Acknowledge, O – Ownership, P – Probe, A – Act, C – Confirm, T – Thank.
Let’s explore how each of these seven steps can turn ordinary conversations into meaningful connections that close deals and build lifelong trust.
Listen — The Lost Art of Sales
Listening is the foundation of trust. Yet, in 80% of sales calls, salespeople interrupt clients within the first 20 seconds.
When you listen, you make the client feel important. When you interrupt, you make them feel invisible.
What True Listening Looks Like:
✅ Maintain eye contact (or voice focus in calls)
✅ Avoid rehearsing your next line while they speak
✅ Paraphrase their statement to show understanding
Example:
Client: “Our main issue is inconsistent lead quality.”
Salesperson: “So, your priority right now is improving lead quality before scaling volume, right?”
That single line proves you’re present. It builds trust instantly.
🧠 Remember: Customers buy most from those who understand them best.
Acknowledge — Make Customers Feel Heard
Acknowledgment is different from agreement. You don’t have to agree with everything the customer says, but you must make them feel heard.
This is especially powerful during objections. When you acknowledge emotions, you lower resistance.
Phrases That Work:
“That’s a fair concern.”
“I completely understand why you’d feel that way.”
“You’re right, that’s a valid point.”
Example:
Client: “Your price seems higher than others.”
Salesperson: “I understand. Price is often one of the first things we evaluate. Let’s explore how our solution might actually save you money overall.”
Acknowledgment disarms tension and opens the door for collaboration instead of confrontation.
💬 Acknowledgment is the bridge between listening and influence.
Ownership — Be the Trusted Partner, Not a Vendor
Taking ownership is about stepping into the customer’s shoes and saying, “I’m with you, and I’ll make sure this gets solved.”
Salespeople who take ownership stand out because they represent confidence and reliability — two traits buyers crave in uncertain markets.
Ownership in Action:
Use “I” statements instead of “we’ll try.”
Take responsibility even when it’s inconvenient.
Be proactive in follow-ups.
Example:
Instead of saying, “I’ll check with my team and get back to you,” say, “I’ll personally ensure this is sorted and share an update by tomorrow evening.”
This shifts the energy of the conversation. You are no longer a seller. You are a trusted partner.
💪 Ownership transforms customers from skeptics into believers.
Probe — Ask Smart Questions, Not Generic Ones
Probing is where sales magic truly happens. When you ask smart, open-ended questions, you uncover real needs, not surface-level requests.
Average salespeople talk.
Top 1% sales professionals diagnose.
The 3 Levels of Probing:
Basic: “What are you currently using?”
Contextual: “How is that solution working for you?”
Emotional: “How does it impact your daily work or results?”
When you move beyond “what” to “why,” you unlock powerful emotional triggers that drive buying decisions.
Example:
Instead of “What CRM do you use?” try “If you could fix one challenge in your current CRM, what would it be?”
That one question turns a product pitch into a problem-solving conversation.
🎯 He who asks better questions controls the direction of the sale.
Act — Turn Words Into Visible Action
This is where most salespeople lose momentum. They have great conversations but fail to act fast enough.
Customers don’t remember what you said — they remember what you did.
Small Actions That Build Big Trust:
Send a quick recap message right after the meeting
Share an additional resource or insight that adds value
Follow up exactly when you said you would
Even small, immediate actions reinforce that you are dependable.
Example:
If you promised to send a proposal “by Monday,” send it Sunday evening with a note:
“Sharing this a bit early so you can review it comfortably tomorrow.”
That one move instantly sets you apart.
⚡ Speed of action defines seriousness in sales.
Confirm — Align Expectations Clearly
Assumptions destroy deals faster than objections. Confirmation prevents that.
Before ending a conversation, always confirm what was discussed and what comes next.
How to Confirm Effectively:
Summarize what was agreed upon:
“So, to confirm, we’ll proceed with the demo on Wednesday, and you’ll loop in your operations head.”Send a written recap (email or WhatsApp).
Include next steps and responsibilities.
This not only avoids confusion but also builds your reputation as a professional who communicates clearly.
🧩 Confirmation creates clarity. Clarity creates confidence. Confidence creates conversion.
Thank — The Power of Gratitude in Sales
“Thank You” is more than good manners. It’s a relationship builder.
When you thank a prospect — sincerely, not mechanically — you trigger reciprocity. People naturally want to engage again with those who appreciate them.
Where to Use Gratitude:
After a meeting: “Thank you for sharing your insights today. I truly value your time.”
After rejection: “Thank you for being transparent. I appreciate the honesty and hope we can reconnect later.”
After closing: “Thank you for trusting us. You’ve made an incredible decision, and I’ll personally ensure you see great results.”
A heartfelt thank-you turns the end of a transaction into the beginning of a relationship.
❤️ Gratitude is the simplest, strongest, and most underrated sales strategy.
The Power of Practicing LAOPACT
When you apply LAOPACT, you move from being a “salesperson” to being a “sales professional.”
Each step makes your communication deeper, your presence stronger, and your influence more natural.
Customers don’t feel like they’re being sold to. They feel like they’re being understood, guided, and supported.
Here’s what happens when you practice LAOPACT daily:
✅ You reduce objections because customers trust you.
✅ You close faster because you align earlier.
✅ You retain more clients because you build relationships, not transactions.
Build Conversations That Convert and Connect
Sales has evolved, but human psychology hasn’t. People still buy from people they like and trust.
The LAOPACT Theory is your map to earn that trust — step by step, word by word.
Every call, meeting, or pitch is an opportunity to listen, acknowledge, own, probe, act, confirm, and thank.
When you master these seven skills, you don’t just close deals — you create advocates.
🌟 Sales is not about pressure. It’s about presence. And LAOPACT is how you master it.
Your Next Step
If you want to learn how to implement LAOPACT practically in your calls, presentations, and follow-ups, start today.
Download my free guide:
👉 5 Secrets to Become a Top 1% Sales Professional
📲 Or message me on WhatsApp at +91 9348101001 to get personalized coaching on applying the LAOPACT model in your sales conversations.
Hey.. I am Bharat Ogirala
Bharat Ogirala, a leading sales coach in India with 22+ years’ experience, has trained 15,000+ professionals, empowering them to excel in sales, leadership, and business growth.
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