The Real Struggles Behind Success
When people look at me today, they often assume I was always confident, always closing deals, always at the top. But the truth is very different. In my early career, I faced constant rejections, missed targets, and many sleepless nights wondering if sales was really for me.
What changed my life was not luck. It was a set of realizations, habits, and mindset shifts that gradually transformed me from an average performer to a Top 1% Sales Professional. In this blog, I want to share those lessons with you, so you can apply them in your own journey.
Lesson 1: I Learned to Listen More Than I Talked
In the beginning, I believed sales was about talking smartly. I filled calls with product features, prices, and benefits. Customers nodded, but rarely said yes.
Then one day, I decided to flip the script. Instead of talking, I asked:
“What’s your biggest challenge with your current solution?”
That simple question unlocked a flood of information. The customer felt heard, and I finally understood what mattered to them. When I reflected their words back and offered a solution, the deal closed with ease.
👉 Takeaway: True selling begins the moment you start listening with intent.
I didn’t become confident overnight. My first breakthrough came from saving a small renewal that was about to be lost.
The client was frustrated. Instead of avoiding the tough call, I said:
“I know we fell short. Give me 30 days to fix this, and if I fail, you can walk away.”
We delivered. The client not only renewed but doubled their contract. That small win gave me confidence to handle bigger challenges.
👉 Takeaway: Confidence is not built by waiting for a big break. It’s built by honoring small promises and winning step by step.
Lesson 3: I Stopped Fearing Objections
For a long time, objections scared me. Whenever someone said “It’s too expensive,” I froze.
Later, I realized objections are not rejection. They are opportunities.
I once handled a major deal where the client complained about cost. Instead of panicking, I asked:
“Compared to what?”
That opened a 20-minute discussion where we discovered their hidden costs with an alternative solution. At the end, the client smiled and signed.
👉 Takeaway: Objections are signals of interest. Treat them with curiosity, not fear.
Lesson 4: I Focused on Trust, Not Just Transactions
One of my proudest achievements was keeping a CRM client for years. Not because I sold them once, but because I consistently added value.
Every month, I checked in, sent usage reports, and shared tips. Sometimes, I even connected them with other clients who had solved similar problems.
After a year, the client told me:
“Bharat, you’re not just a vendor. You’re a partner.”
They renewed three times and referred two more clients.
👉 Takeaway: Repeat business is the reward of trust. Build relationships, not just deals.
Lesson 5: I Shifted From Selling to Serving
The biggest turning point in my career came when I realized: Sales is not about closing. Sales is about serving.
When I entered calls with the mindset of “How can I truly help this person today?” everything changed. I was calmer, more confident, and more authentic. Customers could sense it.
My conversion rates doubled. Not because I became a super speaker, but because I became a genuine problem solver.
👉 Takeaway: Sales success starts when you shift your mindset from self-interest to service.
Recap: My Journey to Success
So, how did I become a successful salesperson?
I learned to listen more than I spoke.
I built confidence through small wins.
I treated objections as opportunities.
I built long-term trust, not just one-time sales.
I shifted my mindset from selling to serving.
These lessons didn’t just help me close deals. They helped me grow as a person, earn respect, and build lasting relationships.
Conclusion: If I Could... You Can Too
If I could transform myself from struggling with rejection to becoming a top performer, so can you.
Start with one lesson. Maybe it’s listening better. Maybe it’s handling objections calmly. Maybe it’s serving instead of selling. Apply it in your next call.
Success in sales is not built in one day. It’s built every day. One conversation. One customer. One promise kept.
📖 Want more? I’ve also covered this topic in my video — check the link in the description to watch it and reinforce these lessons.
If you want to learn how to sell certainty, results, and trust like a top 1% sales professional, download my FREE guide: “5 Secrets to Become a Top 1% Sales Professional.”
📲 Message me directly on WhatsApp at +91 9348101001 and I’ll send it instantly.
Pro Tip:
Remember, One Action, One Conversation and One Customer at a time.
When you stop selling products and start selling what people actually want, sales stops being a transaction — it becomes a transformation.
Hey.. I am Bharat Ogirala
Bharat Ogirala, a leading sales coach in India with 22+ years’ experience, has trained 15,000+ professionals, empowering them to excel in sales, leadership, and business growth.
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